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Couple of questions generated during life and regarding married life that is when we get married I mean what is right time of married? what is the age that we get married? what is perfect age for married? vibes of married? Why people get married or move in with a partner?

According to Modi govt marriage age increased 21 for both boys and girls. But previously after independence, India saw a major change in 1978 when the legal age of marriage was increased to 18 for girls and 21 for boys.  Marriage below this age is considered to be child marriage, and hence an offence. With the minimum age for marriage at 21, a woman will be mentally, physically, and financially in a better position to stand up for herself against facing pressure or maltreatment from her family for getting married early or getting married against her will.

Yes marriage is someway needful and also someway not needful. In the world there was/were/is many successful person not married and also many persons after marry got the success.

So overall defination is inconsistent as per people experience. But those people love to marry or need to married for those people must be think regarding when right or time to get married.

As per research In india 92% persons get married and 2% not getting married by choice and 6% persons not getting married by chance.

Someone says “At least wait until your brain stops growing“

Maturity level matter?

Yes always….. Marriage age is depends on your maturity level.. below age 28 maturity level is less so chances of divorce no patience, no compromise, only arguement, complaints and not settled into professional life. But after 28 it’s opossite, settled down into marriage life as well as professional life so brain calm, had patience, compromise no arguement, complaints so overall no chance to divorce. With marriage comes a more responsibilities and you are prepared for marriage just when you are ready for every one of these. And it does not matter if you are in your 20s or your 40s, you are at an ideal age and are prepared for marriage just when you assume you are equipped for bearing the obligations

“There is no ideal age until the person is mentally ready”

Is it wait for long time?

Totally it depends you.. marriage is not compulsory decision and also not depends on time and age but If you feel like get married then you can go ahead otherwise not burden of family or entire neighborhood. If you commitment with one person then you should take time to make decision of married with respective person because sometime we recognize actual behavior’s/situation of those person. S

For example if we are purchasing any required and loved thing then we think about many more before purchase. And also we do imagination that how we look like? and is it beneficial for me? after purchase regret about choice?

So overall for minor purchase if we think more then why we don’t take time before take marriage decision.

Actually most of people before marriage my committed that I’ll support you every time in every situation, I’ll not apply restriction, financial support you, you also stay financial independent, we will keep space in relationship, we always stay happy without any regret but after marriage all are happening different. So overall we don’t hurry and carefully take decision of married and stay happy and always keep smile on face 🙂